Wednesday, November 4, 2009
Jared's First Deer
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Perspective
Jared throws me a quick goodbye as Gabe begins to cry because his pants are still damp from the dryer and they feel funny. I assure him they will dry, kiss him goodbye and wish him a good day as he exits the car.
Jacob who doesn't care for morning and rarely speaks before 10am unless directly spoken to, sits next to me with swollen eyes and a stuffy nose of what may be an oncoming cold.
What a HORRIBLE morning! Wait, wait, wait!!!!!!! Before I completely fell into the "woe is me" mentality, I came to my senses and looked on the bright side. I did not kill the crossing guard, Jared didn't miss the bus, Gabe's pants will dry within an hour, and Jacob can still breathe out of his right nostril.
It's so easy to think about everything wrong in life. With a little perspective the same situation can have a whole lot right. :)
Tuesday, October 20, 2009
Finish the dilemma
Jacob tells me that he saw me as I quietly retreated into the library without saying a word. He said I looked like I was all over the place. I guess my indecision showed all over my face. I will from now on, I will say what I came to say. I mean really, how embarrassing can I be to my teenage son in the hallway at school during class change with all his friends around?
Wednesday, October 14, 2009
Fall Break
Fall break has also been a time of catching up on doctor's appointments. Gabe and I both visited the dentist, Jared had an eye check up, and Jacob had his wisdom teeth removed on Monday. Jacob's been down the last few days, but he's bouncing back fast. He's a very good patient with very little complaining.
We have managed to squeeze in a little fun also with a camping trip with friends and Mark, Dad & Martha visiting. Family, friends, food and shopping...can't beat that!
On a serious note, Scott's brother Brian was in a serious motorcyle accident that left him in the hospital for a week. It was pretty scary there for a few days but thankfully after surgery to repair shattered ribs and a punctured lung, he's home with his family and mending.
We also had very sad news this morning. My very sweet sister-in-law Kim lost her mother to cancer early this morning. Beverly fought a tremendous battle and was so very strong til the end. Our thoughts and prayers are with you Kim.
Thursday, September 24, 2009
The Dog's Are Howling
Jacob had some exciting news yesterday. Coach pulled him and four other sophomores aside after practice and told them that he'd like them to go to Florida over Spring Break with the Varsity team. I'm sure they are going as back up in case someone gets hurt, but exciting never-the-less.
Sunday, August 30, 2009
The Cake That Almost Wasn't
It wasn't until this afternoon after church that I loaded the dishwasher and, reaching for the soap, discovered a small box of dishsoap that I didn't remember buying.
There sandwiched between two boxes dishsoap was my cake mix. Who put that there? I blame the kids. lol
I'm not telling you this story to highlight the fact that I'm losing my mind, but to reassure you that you're not losing yours or maybe that we're all in the same boat.
Tuesday, August 25, 2009
I am FURIOUS!
So the appointed hour has arrived and we are primed for fun. I go into the community center to change out of my work clothes and ask the lady behind the desk if we need to do anything special to use the skate park. She says, "I'm sorry, the skate park is closed". CLOSED! I wanted to plead my case and sway her with how highly anticipated this trip to the skate park is. I wanted to tell her that she holds the shattered dreams of a 7 year old in the palm of her hand and that 7 year old was standing just on the other side of the glass double doors. I held back and instead asked...
Me: Why?
Lady: Some out of control teenagers have been breaking the rules and even made gyrating motions at me.
Me: Why didn't you kick them out instead of punishing everyone in the community?
Lady: We are trying to send a strong message that this kind of behavior won't be tolerated.
Okay this is where my soapbox starts...
This is a perfect example of why our society is in the pits. We no longer have clear consequences for our actions. You break something?, you fix it. You're rude and disrespectful in a public place?, you are kicked out for a certain amount of time. If you returned before you are supposed to?, you are trespassing and the police are called. You see my point.
We have not only lost consequences for negative behavior, but positive behavior as well. Example? Field day at the elementary school level...everyone receives a participation ribbon. They no longer award a 1st, 2nd, 3rd place. Why should you compete if everyone ends up the same anyway--no winner. Are jobs still awarded to the most qualified person, the person who works the hardest? I was recently given a book (Boys Adrift by Dr. Leonard Sax) that questions the "why" concerning apathy in the young men of our society. The book points part of the blame at the lack of competition in our society. The author states that most boys thrive and rise to the occasion when faced with a challenge or competition. He goes on to say that our current society has taken competition away in many cases leaving in it's place an apathetic generation of young men. Of course there are other factors as well, but the growing number of young men living back at home with mom and dad well into their 30's is proof that something is out of kilter.
How can we expect people to make good choices if they aren't personally held accountable for their bad choices? In addition, how can we expect people to work hard and strive to achieve if we don't reward their hard work?
Whew....glad I got that off my chest!
Thursday, August 20, 2009
And the winner is...
Tuesday, August 11, 2009
Worth Your Time...
Monday, August 10, 2009
Back to School
Saturday, July 25, 2009
Friday, July 10, 2009
New Recipe
Thursday, July 9, 2009
Gone fishin'
Tuesday, July 7, 2009
Post Number 200
The Boys - Current Picture
The Boys - October 2007
Monday, July 6, 2009
Gabe's String of Bad Luck
We've been back from vacation less than a week, and Gabe has had a tough one. First he backed the four-wheeler into the truck leaving a small but noticable dent, he then fell getting out of the pool and scraped his forehead. His last predicament brought him to me crying, "IDONWANAHAVSURGREEE". Once he settled down, I discovered that he had swallowed a nickel and he was saying "I don't want to have surgery". He wasn't in any pain or having any trouble breathing, swallowing, or drinking, so thanks to advice given by WebMD, we are patiently waiting for the nickel to reappear.
Good news? We've discovered a helpful use for the old newlywed saran wrap on the commode trick. My brother-in-law thinks we should throw 5 pennies in the commode and tell Gabe he made change.
Saturday, July 4, 2009
Let Freedom Ring
There isn't a family I've ever met that has more fun with the 4th of July than the Williams. The men of the family typically go out a few days before the celebration and spend hundreds of dollars on explosives. Wasteful? By female standards yes, but husbands don't generally understand spending big bucks on matching shoes and handbags either...the world has a way of balancing things out.
In the eighteen years I've been part of this family, I have sat through swarming mosquitoes, stifling humidity, and relentless rain to watch the display. What started as the Williams boys playing with fire has turned into quite an incredible show. They now have different stations with fireworks being launched simultaneously. Don't get excited guys, you're not Riverfront good yet. However, at the Riverfront display you don't get the occasional misfire into the crowd, nor do you get the opportunity to see your husband, brother, or son duck and roll to safety.
Traditions are different in every family. Our tradition may sound scary or careless to some, but I wouldn't miss it for anything! Happy Fourth of July everyone, may you be burn free!
Friday, July 3, 2009
Thursday, July 2, 2009
Talkeetna, Alaska
The last stop of our trip brought us to Talkeetna, Alaska. Talkeetna is a small Alaskan town rumored to be the basis for the tv show Northern Exposure. Looking past it's tv fame, Talkeetna holds, in my opinion, a much greater notoriety. It's the base camp for hikers attempting to climb Mt. McKinley. As I sat gazing at the mountain in all her splendor I was aware of how many hikers must have sat in my exact place contemplating their trek. Were they ready...had they trained hard enough, did they bring enough food, the right equipment. I could almost feel their nerves and excitement. Four climbers have perished already this year attempting the climb. At first glance an attempt to climb Mt. McKinley seems foolish or irresponsible, but at closer examination I understand the desire to plan, train, and challenge yourself; setting and achieving a personal goal.
Our hotel (the only hotel besides a bed and breakfast) in Talkeetna.
Thursday, June 25, 2009
This will probably be my last blog post until we return home. The cruise portion of our vacation ends in the morning (boo hoo!) and we begin the land portion of our vacation. We are headed to Anchorage, then on to Denali. Keep your fingers crossed that we'll see some bears and that the weather will be clear enough for us to view Mt. McKinley.
Wednesday, June 24, 2009
Tonight is formal night with prime rib and lobster for dinner. Life is tough!
Jared filmed his decent down the mountain via the mile long zip line. The person speeding by on Jared's right is Scott.
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
Alaskan Update

**While in Skagway, we shopped, panned for gold with Gabe finding the most gold (21.00 worth). After our gold fever had passed, we decided to take a hike. The hiking was fabulous!
Saturday, June 20, 2009
Greetings from Alaska
We made it! Life is good on the cruise. We are well fed (understatement). We are now cruising the inside passage. The boys have found the arcade, the rock climbing wall, and are signed up for a dodgeball tournament this afternoon. Tomorrow the guys are spending Father's Day deep sea fishing while Martha and I are shopping and getting spa treatment. Sorry no pictures, this computer doesn't have a USB port. More later...
Wednesday, June 17, 2009
I believe Dale Evans said it best...
Happy trails to you,
until we meet again.
Some trails are happy ones,
Others are blue.
It's the way you ride the trail that counts,
Here's a happy one for you.
Sunday, June 14, 2009
Great news...the whole team (summer team) made the high school team for 2009-10. Great job boys!
Monday, June 1, 2009
What have we been up to you ask?
Baseball of course...and then more baseball.
The biggie would have to be Jacob getting his driver's permit. Scary? Well, I've only peed myself once. Don't judge, we were approaching the car in front of us very quickly, he wasn't braking, and I have a three baby bladder. Need I say more?
Jared tried out and made the school basketball team. We now have 6am practices 3 days a week.
Scott is traveling on business in Canada. How convenient that his trip coincides with the 6am practice schedule. hmmmmm....
Jacob has been to the doctor with a potentially broken hand. I say potentially because we don't have the x-ray results yet. It's a long story, but in a nutshell, the radiology technician "couldn't legally" give us the results and had to send them to our doctor. By the time we were through with the x-ray, our doctors office was closed. Very frustrating! What did Jacob do to his hand? He was at bat and got hit by a pitch. I received a little bit of ridicule because I responded with, "Thata boy Jacob, maybe he hit you out of your slump." Okay, sometimes I'm not a tender, touchy feely mother. I did make a special trip to the concession stand for his favorite color of Gatorade and took it to him in the dugout. Does that count?
Thursday, May 14, 2009
Gabe-isms
Gabe has been particularly funny this week and I'm afraid if I don't start writing down these cute little gems I'll soon forget them.
Story #1...every morning as I drop Gabe at school, without fail he kisses me goodbye, confirms that he rides the bus to my school in the afternoon, asks if I packed his lunch, and tells me he loves me. He surprised me this week when I pulled up to school and he opens the door to get out without a single word. As he's standing outside the car with the door open I say, "Hey wait, where's my kiss?" he replies, "Sorry, no time for kisses today. Love you." and off he went. I was left speechless with the irrefutable evidence that the baby of the bunch is growing up. That night as I tucked my little guy into bed, I smothered him with kisses and told him under no circumstances would he be allowed to leave for school in the morning until he kissed his mother goodbye. He agreed, with a little pressure from the tickle fairy.
Story #2...After school today Gabe was entertaining me with his daily adventures. He has many I assure you. I asked, "Are you feeling okay? You sound like your nose is stuffy." It was then that he informed me..."Mom, I'm not stuffy at all. That's just my voice, it's just changing and getting deeper...you know, like Jacob's?" I was driving at the time and couldn't see his face, but I imagine that he gave me the teenage why are you so stupid eye roll.
Sunday, May 10, 2009
Jacob decided to fish a little while we were at Grandmom's. Since the water is so high (you can see the dock in the background), Jacob got his lure stuck in a tree. It's not easy casting through a yard full of trees. Colleen and Michael paddled through the "yard" and got Jacob unstuck.
Saturday, May 9, 2009
Happy Mother's Day!
Sunday, May 3, 2009
The Great Debate
Saturday, May 2, 2009
Mark (by text): If you like pina coladas...
Me (by text): Getting caught in the rain
silence
It's at this point that I realize that Mark is trying to send me a gift (of sorts). He's trying to get a song stuck in my head. Doncha just hate having a song stuck in your head? What to do, what to do? Mark left me no choice, I had to pull out the big guns and reply with the ultimate stick in your head song.
Me (by text): Sweet Caroline ba, ba, ba
Mark tried, unsuccessfully I might add, to over ride my trump.
Mark (by text): Love shack, baby love shack
You might find this game we play silly, but it never fails to make me smile.
http://music.aol.com/song/player/audioplayer.jsp
Monday, April 20, 2009
My sweet wonderful boys are trying desperately to not only take care of me, but lift my spirits. Jared decided that since I won't feel like eating tomorrow evening, we need to have my birthday dinner tonight. Nothing cheers me up like Mexican food. Can you say muy bueno! Gabe carried my bag into the house from the car, exclaiming..."What do you have in here, library books?" Scott is insisting that I open presents tonight, so I can retreat and just lay low tomorrow night. I tried to talk him out of early present opening, really I did. That's a lie...I would never, NEVER turn down early present opening not to mention CAKE. Thanks fella's you're the greatest!
Thursday, April 16, 2009
**By the way, the runner was OUT!
Tuesday, April 14, 2009
Student: Only 2 months and 1 day until I'm eighteen.
Me: How many hours?
Student: I don't know, they don't care about hours on your ID.
Me: Why do you want your ID to say eighteen ? What will 18 on your ID allow you to do?
Student: Four things...I can buy lottery tickets, go to a gentlemans club, buy cigarettes, and buy cough medicine.
Me: (Sarcastically) Wow, sounds like your life will be complete.
I wonder to myself...was I excited when I was legally able to purchase lottery tickets? I recall feeling pretty grown up when I could purchase cigarettes and I wasn't even a smoker. As I approach my birthday I'm going to try and come up with some sort of milestone I can get excited about (besides menapause, lol). Maybe I'll go out and buy lottery tickets, cigarettes, cough medicine, frequent a gentlemans club, and pretend I'm eighteen again.
Monday, April 13, 2009
Hoppy Hoppy Easter!
Putting together this display of our Easter pictures I am struck speechless. What a wonderful family I've been blessed with. I am so very thankful! Thankful for my amazing husband who understands me most of the time. Thankful for three incredible children. I can't begin to explain how much joy they bring me everyday (frustration sometimes too, but unbelievable amounts of joy). Mostly I'm thankful for a God that loves humanity so much that he gave us His Son. I pray that I never take any of these blessings for granted for I know that I do not deserve them.
Saturday, April 11, 2009
"They're faded in the front."
"I can wear my jeans out myself."
"I set my own trends."
Jacob begs Mark not to leave.
Begging didn't work, so Jacob & Jared try to force Mark to stay.
Mark proved to be too much for them.




